About Bondage

Pronunciation:
\ˈbän-dij\
Function:
noun
Etymology:
Middle English, from Anglo-French, from bonde customary tenant, from Middle English
Date:
14th century
1: the tenure or service of a villein, serf, or slave2: a state of being bound usu. by compulsion (as of law or mastery): as a: captivity , serfdom b: servitude or subjugation to a controlling person or force <young people in bondage to drugs> 3: sadomasochistic sexual practices involving the physical restraint of one partner

It’s a metaphor. There are things in life that tie us down. There are things in life that tie us up. 

 

My ropes that keep me in bondage:

  • Low Self Esteem.
  • Fear of trusting people, even long time friends.
  • Fear of abandonment.
  • Work
  • Social Life
  • Stress

 

Everyone has at least one thing in their life the puts them into bondage.It is these bonds that can keep us from living life as it was meant to be lived.

For those who are curious. Yes I am into bondage. Japanese Rope Bondage  to be exact. It is something that takes great trust and goes beyond just sexual experience for me.

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